
THE OTHER MAN IN THE ROOM

Mom might say, “Mark go brush your teeth and hop into bed; it’s bed time.” I would dutifully head toward the bathroom with every obedient intention, but would almost always get distracted by something like– the old antique trunk in the hallway. In a split second, that old trunk would become a pirate’s treasure chest containing gold coins and jewels beyond my wildest dreams. It would steal away all of my attention. Then the next thing I knew Mom would be pinching the fire out of me, demanding why I didn’t obey her. I was stunned that she would think I wanted to disobey! My answer? “Mom, I just forgot.”
Several years ago I was subpoenaed to testify in court for a simple custody case. A fine couple in our church were hoping to get custody of their young niece, who’s mother had been arrested for drug possession several times and hospitalized in a mental institution. It seemed like an easy case to me. As their pastor, they needed me to be a simple “character” witness, testifying about their family stability, moral character, and suitability to be loving guardians for the child.
Our class spent two weeks in Israel seeing the sights and visiting archaeological digs .(Basically, we visited what other people had dug. Interesting, but not really National Geographic material. We were, however, housed in the cold attic of a three hundred year old church. That was cool.) I enjoyed the trip very much. Just being in the land that Abraham claimed, that David ruled, and that Jesus walked was inspiring enough. But we got to visit places that regular tourists couldn’t even see. It was an exhilarating adventure. I thought about Jesus every single day. It was quite a spiritual romp for a twenty year old.
One day in Jerusalem was especially memorable. We were strolling through the Valley of Hinnom, on the southeastern side of Jerusalem, just outside the ancient wall. It is a beautiful municipal park now, but in the time of Jesus it was Jerusalem’s garbage dump. No kidding. In Jesus’ day it was called Gehenna, where there was always garbage burning and dead animals smouldering and swelling in the hot sun. Imagine the stench!